cherakee68
Dec 16, 2008, 09:14 AM
I broke up a few months ago from a long term relationship. In the relationship there was no love on my end. It was mostly out of convinience and that I knew it would be a nightmare to end it. Eventually it did end and I had no plans on being with anyone for a long long time. I saw a couple guys that I hung out with and we did fun things and had a good time but nothing serious. Then I met Greg a few weeks ago through some friends and at first I was like, this guy is totally not what I'm use to. I agreed to go out with him a couple times and things just spun from there. I told him I couldn't get into anything serious because I needed to find myself. He was fine with that and said we would be friends at first. So he hung out and we went places and he told me one night last week it was never just friends. That I am deep in his heart but he can't say the L word yet because it gets him into trouble. So that's fine but now I've fallen deeply head over heels for this man and find myself running the other way and he notices that. He tells me that I have my guard up and he feels me pulling away from him. Then he doesn't come over. Ask me if I don't mind that he doesn't come up so then I'm freaked. I'm like omg... what did I do now and I better run now before I get hurt worse. I truly want things to work long term with Greg but just don't know what I'm suppose to do now. For once in my life I feel like I could finally be in love with a man instead of just going through the emotions and pretending because it's better for everyone else.