Hello to evryone,

From last one and a half month I am in contact of a boy 4 years younger to me. Now he wants to get married to me. Shall I procee or not. I too like him but not passionate for him. More over I feel the fear of an understanding gap b/w both of us as he is not mature enough to match my levl of thinking. But he loves me a lot willl keep me happy in coming future for which I'm sure. We both work in the same company as well!! :confused: what shall I do??

First of all how old are you and what is your country? His country?

What I would tell you basically is do not marry somebody because they love you. If you do not love them as well there is nothing they can do to make you happy. So if you have the choice get to know him better or move on to somebody else.
At least here in America from what I have seen in life and on Chuck Wolery's Love Connection a lot depends on the guy. Like on Love Connection Chuck Wolery even pointed out that he saw how you can have a guy that a girl really isn't into call her every day, buy her flowers, open her car door and do all kinds of nice things and she would criticize that he did these things and it made her feel uncomfortable because it was too early in the relationship and she didn't want him to do these things.
Yet the girls that were really liking the guy would say how much they really liked talking to the guy everyday and how sweet he was in buying flowers on the first date and opening the car door and everything.

I have long held the belief that if you feel the need to ask if you should get married to someone, you shouldn't. If you don't know, then no one else will either.