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homeworkgirl
Dec 14, 2008, 06:30 PM
Today I feel he doesn't have a lot to talk about on the phone. There was a time when we were both silent and didn't know what to say, and it's uncomfortable. I am worried. Is he losing interest on me? And before the phone call, he didn't respond my text for the first time. I texted him that he is very important to me, but he didn't say anything back.
neverme
Dec 14, 2008, 06:35 PM
What age are you two?
TrueFaith
Dec 14, 2008, 06:48 PM
Don't over think things :)
I use to have your problem
My girls use to send me emails with love you at the end.
One day she did not put that. And I thought it was over! HA! So yeah I spent a week going mental over that.
But thankful I learnt to control that and you should as well
There are so many things you can talk about.
Then once all has been said. There is not much left.
Like if you ring everyday. I'm not being funny. But no ones life is so intresting they can keep a conversation up for 3 hours.
Take it easy relax.
Maybe turn down the phone calls for a bit
And phone him when you have something to talk about
Regards
talaniman
Dec 15, 2008, 09:13 AM
You expect way too much, and are easily saddened when you don't get the quick caring response you need, and that is a sign of insecurity.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search.php?searchid=3473245
After going back through your other posts, you just may have a bigger emotional investment than he does, so your expectations are much higher than his are.
http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-handle-this-seven-ways-to-survive-a-long-distance-relationship/?cnn=yes
This is a good read that may help you.
Romefalls19
Dec 15, 2008, 09:19 AM
Maybe you are talking too much on the phone, I know I HATE talking on the phone. Most guys don't like to sit on the phone for hours, if you listen in on a typicals guys conversation it goes something like this.
Guy 1: Yo man, what's up
Guy 2: Nothing, just hanging out
Guy 1: Want to do something?
Guy 2: Sure stop by and we'll figure it out
Guy 1: Sounds good.Later
Guy 2: Later
That is over in a minute or less
kctiger
Dec 15, 2008, 09:31 AM
Got to spread the rep Rome, but that is clearly true. That is usually my typical conversation over text, to be honest. I try and avoid a phone convesation whenever possible, as I too hate it! Usually just pointless and a waste of time.
Romefalls19
Dec 15, 2008, 09:32 AM
Yup I can say everything in one text that takes people like 5 minutes on the phone. Where I'm at, what I'm doing, who I'm with and when I'll be home.
Done and done