I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 23 , we been together for 5yrs we were dateing for 8 months before we got are own place together we been living with each other 4yrs strong, I was mostly the bread winner in are relationship while she figure out what she wants to do in life I took care of bills etc,etc.. She would work a job for a few months and than end up quiting it, over and over again, are relationship had it's ups and downs of course but we got over it, she done a lot of wrong in the relationship but I forgave her but didn't forget it, she had a problem with keeping things in the open with me, so when it does come to light It will tribe an argument, than she would try to make it seem like I did something wrong for confronting get, so those the only problems we would have
Anyway longstory short...
Last February 2008 she started looking for her long lost dad, she used some kind of people search online,, well she found him staying in Indiana, and we stay in Minnesota, so sense she found him she been keeping contact with him through mail somtime phone,
A few months ago she mention she want to see him one day I agree it would be a good idea but at the time I said no because we had to work, so come November we talk about her going to see him for thanksgiving, I did but didn't like the idea, because she didn't ask me to go with, so I ask why not and she told me this will be the first time we take a break from together and. She said it will be a good idea that way when she come home we will miss each other I didn't like the word break so I blow it a little out of proportion saying I don't know what a break means we already didn't see enough of each other but early morning and late at night ,so by me being the guy I am I try to give her everything she wants plus I don't want to look bad. About leting her see her dad so I agreed,
So the plan was her to leave on Nov 25 and be back on Sun Nov 30 to be back at her intern on Mon, the whole time she was gone we kept contact to a minimum I try calling on the day it's time to come back no answer then I called her dads he's giving me the run around about were she at, (keep in mine she hasent seen these people sense she was 5yrs old) so now I'm worried it's been about 3 weeks now and nobody up here in Minnesota has heard from her none even her family, so now I'm stress out worried don't know what to think... what do you thinks going on

You may want to contact the local police in Indiana if her father continues to evade the question.

Maybe talking with her family, in Minnesota, will give you some insights, as its strange, they are not as concerned as you are.

I talk to her mom and all her family up here in Mn, and they all lost for words, as I am, I think that some of her family suspect Ive done something to make her do this, and the honest to god truth Is what I told u, but I do know she wasn't getting as much love from her family up as she could have been, they were always kind of jelous of what me and her having a strong lasting relationship, so therefor there only concern I'd if she alive, in the mean time my concern is she coming back and when, we have responsbiltys that the two of us have tide up with each other, like or apartment bills.ect.ect

Seems like a very strange and odd situation to me... something is fishy