I have one "friend" who I used to get into trouble with, go to parties, find guys, drink, smoke whatever. Whenever I talk to her though, when I'm sober and trying to be straight, its like she's holding something back and it drives me crazy. I haven't talked to her in over two years, she moved to a different country, but we both have a Facebook. She im'd me out of nowhere asking how I was. Then she told me that a mutual friend who I used to be sexually active with was coming to her country and she got him a deal to go down there. I was confused as to why she was even talking to me since I know that she used to talk about me and it was known that we didn't like each other. But anyway, I tried to see if our relationship was worth saving, so I asked her how she was and what she was doing and she didn't answer me. She was curious as to what was going on in my life and who I was dating but she didn't want to say anything about what she was doing. So , it still pisses me off and for some reason it makes me do crazy things. Any ideas?

I was confused as to why she was even talking to me

Because you let her. So why are you talking back to her?

[QUOTE=kb254;1424850] I was confused as to why she was even talking to me since I know that she used to talk about me and it was known that we didn't like each other.

Might she be looking to start a fight?Maybe to flaunt this past relationship of yours in your face to get a rise out of you?

Doesn't seem like much of a friend.

I don't think she's a friend at all. Maybe she just wanted to be nosy to see what your up to or maybe she just wanted to make you jealous. You know what they say "misery loves company".

She must have missed the lesson of growing up but I would cut communication with her and don't let her into your life.