ScottGem
Dec 10, 2008, 02:52 PM
Thought I would get some feedback on this issue.
We sent out holiday cards as we do every year. In the last two days we got back two cards that indicated that one of the addresses has died. One went in may the other in August. In one case, the survivor is a first cousin of my mother's. Obviously we are not hugely close, but we do include them on our holiday list and we have corresponded over the years. In the other case, it was the father of my best man from my wedding. Again we had drifted apart over the years, but were very close at one time.
What I'm not sure of is how to acknowledge this news. Should we wait until after the holidays? Do we send a sympathy card for an event that happened months ago? I don't want to ignore it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.
We sent out holiday cards as we do every year. In the last two days we got back two cards that indicated that one of the addresses has died. One went in may the other in August. In one case, the survivor is a first cousin of my mother's. Obviously we are not hugely close, but we do include them on our holiday list and we have corresponded over the years. In the other case, it was the father of my best man from my wedding. Again we had drifted apart over the years, but were very close at one time.
What I'm not sure of is how to acknowledge this news. Should we wait until after the holidays? Do we send a sympathy card for an event that happened months ago? I don't want to ignore it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.