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BobbyVandeyar
Dec 9, 2008, 04:51 PM
Hey I was wondering. Based on relationships. When is it the right time to kiss a girl? What sings are there that you get to know that it is the right time? I mean people have asked me lately. But in my opinion its not timed. Nor thought of. Its just at the moment when you feel it's that time to make a move. But I want to hear what other people think. So tell me when is it the right time to kiss a girl?

wolfgangqpublic
Dec 9, 2008, 05:58 PM
I preach this as far and wide as I can.

If you are feeling good about your interest and attraction, and you have met previously, and she is reciprocating with positive body language and communication (especially if she is touching you without your request) - try to kiss her in the middle of the first "date" (or whatever event). I have met VERY few young women (<30) who aren't fine with that, after all it's only kissing.

It immediately cuts the tension and makes for a more enjoyable time. This is fact.

Don't make the attempt if you aren't interested, or she is not responding in a way that communicates interest.

BobbyVandeyar
Dec 9, 2008, 06:24 PM
Intresting. What else are good signs?

AManWithNoName
Dec 9, 2008, 06:31 PM
When she feels its OK, not you, never you, think of her wants before yours, OK, me and my ex barley kissed, I smoked, a lot, so I understood why

neverme
Dec 9, 2008, 07:21 PM
I'll just speak for myself and say if I want a man to kiss me (or anything else) I will give him ample opportunity. If a girl is looking into your eyes when you talk, laughs at your jokes, touches you affectionately, purposely creates a situation where you are alone etc

Anyway there is no sure fire way for anyone to be sure they will be not be rejected. It's life we all and will be rejected in our lives. But you'll never make the same mistake twice... if your lucky :)

BobbyVandeyar
Dec 9, 2008, 09:27 PM
What if u ask? I feel that if u ask its like a turn off...