Commander Wall
Dec 8, 2008, 09:11 PM
Okay, here's the situation: Last year in December, there was this girl that I liked in an acting production she and I were in (Haystack). I asked her out after the cast party, and she said yes. We kept in contact on Facebook because we didn't live exceptionally close
(15 minutes) and she didn't go to my school (the one beside mine). We saw each other twice: One was for a date during lunch at school, where we went to Subway and a Mac's (it was really awkward, but what first date isn't?), the other time was when we went to a party. I was nervous about talking to her, and so we barely spoke to each other, in which time one of my friends decided to flirt with her. This got me really mad and scared. After the party, I messaged her on Facebook, and I felt really bad about acting so jealous. Unfortunately, I got scared of losing her, and so I became clingy and apologetic. She didn't like this. The party was on December 28th, and she broke up with me on Januaray 12th, which was really devastating to me.
The problem is: I still really like her. After she broke up with me, we had a few fights, but we got better. We still talk on Facebook; sometimes we don't have great conversations, but sometimes we have such awesome conversations where I'm feeling really good. Haystack has started up again, and I'm seeing her there, but we barely talk for some reason.
Now here are the things I'm wondering. I really like my ex, more then any other girl, even though out relationship only lasted a month and nothing really big happened (never even held hands). I know it sounds really stupid, but I really want to be with her. She has said that she could fall for me again, but she's also said she doesn't want to. Her best friend's told me that I was all she talked about when they talked (while we were dating anyways). I'm wondering how I can actually win her back? How do I get a conversation that lasts going? How do I keep her interested in talking to me in person and not just on Facebook? How do I make it an interesting conversation? How can I be funny? Be the kind of guy she'd want to date? Please get back to me as soon as you can.
(15 minutes) and she didn't go to my school (the one beside mine). We saw each other twice: One was for a date during lunch at school, where we went to Subway and a Mac's (it was really awkward, but what first date isn't?), the other time was when we went to a party. I was nervous about talking to her, and so we barely spoke to each other, in which time one of my friends decided to flirt with her. This got me really mad and scared. After the party, I messaged her on Facebook, and I felt really bad about acting so jealous. Unfortunately, I got scared of losing her, and so I became clingy and apologetic. She didn't like this. The party was on December 28th, and she broke up with me on Januaray 12th, which was really devastating to me.
The problem is: I still really like her. After she broke up with me, we had a few fights, but we got better. We still talk on Facebook; sometimes we don't have great conversations, but sometimes we have such awesome conversations where I'm feeling really good. Haystack has started up again, and I'm seeing her there, but we barely talk for some reason.
Now here are the things I'm wondering. I really like my ex, more then any other girl, even though out relationship only lasted a month and nothing really big happened (never even held hands). I know it sounds really stupid, but I really want to be with her. She has said that she could fall for me again, but she's also said she doesn't want to. Her best friend's told me that I was all she talked about when they talked (while we were dating anyways). I'm wondering how I can actually win her back? How do I get a conversation that lasts going? How do I keep her interested in talking to me in person and not just on Facebook? How do I make it an interesting conversation? How can I be funny? Be the kind of guy she'd want to date? Please get back to me as soon as you can.