View Full Version : Wondering if it is true
Chin-Chee
Dec 8, 2008, 10:19 AM
OK well I have this friend, and for safety Im not going to use her name, she claims she hasen't had her period in about the last month, and she says that she has been getting these pains in her belly and been feeling like in her stomach that something is moving, does that mean there is a chance she is pregnant, also I know you have to have sex to get a baby but she would never lie about something like this and she says that she has never ever ever had sex. Please help!
Ps.--is it possible, she has gotten raped or something and didn't know it?
I'm so sorry but I just thought of another thing.. could she be passing gas or something?
danielnoahsmommy
Dec 8, 2008, 10:23 AM
Even if she waas pregnant, she would not feel it moving during this first month. Tell her to go to the doctor
tntdynamite
Dec 8, 2008, 11:17 AM
There are other reasons why a girl wood miss her period other than pregnancy, are her eating habits normal, no purging, or is she eating at all. I agree with the above post, she woodnt be feeling the baby move this early. She shood go to a doctor.
tntdynamite
Dec 8, 2008, 11:32 AM
I 4got 2 answer your p.s.
I guess its possible to be raped and not know, but its highly unlikley. If your not in an unfamilar place, you cood hv brusies, or bodily fluids on u, tattered clothes
But also if she's hving stomach pains then she mite getting ready 2 hv her period.
DoulaLC
Dec 8, 2008, 05:50 PM
ok well I have this friend, and for safety Im not going to use her name, she claims she hasen't had her period in about the last month, and she says that she has been getting these pains in her belly and been feeling like in her stomach that something is moving, does that mean there is a chance she is pregnant, also i know you have to have sex to get a baby but she would never lie about something like this and she says that she has never ever ever had sex. Please help!
ps.--is it possible, she has gotten raped or something and didn't know it??
im so sorry but i just thought of another thing..could she be passing gas or something??
The "movement" she feels is most likely air bubbles, or stomach rumbling. I have felt it myself and it actually can feel quite similar to the first flutters. If she has missed a period, and is normally quite regular, she really should take a test if she feels there is any possible way for her to be pregnant. She may not have had actual sex, but even having semen near the vaginal opening may be enough. Sometimes couples fool around without actual penetration but during arousal sperm can be present in the fluid that is produced. It would not be likely if there is no penetration, but it can't be ruled out depending on the circumstances.
As far as the possibility of being raped and not knowing it... has she put herself in a position that this could happen? As in maybe drinking and passing out somewhere? In all likelihood she would know something was up once she came to.
Odds are she is just late or skipping this period... it happens.