View Full Version : Break up or make up
womaningirl
Dec 7, 2008, 09:27 PM
Me and my boyfriend have been going out on and off for a while
And I personally am the type of person who needs to be shown affection, when we dated and the first weeks of our relationship everything was fine but now he is being lazy about it
He didn't work today and instead of calling me he just stayed HOME!!
I was so mad and I don't know what to do
Should I call him and tell him how I feel or should I just simply break it once and for all
Tell me :)
N0help4u
Dec 7, 2008, 09:32 PM
He is to the point he feels comfortable enough to let you see the real him. Before he was trying to win you over and impress you. Now he feels he can take the relationship for granted.
I would break it off with him if he doesn't show signs of improvement because it only gets worse.
womaningirl
Dec 7, 2008, 09:40 PM
So u suggest that I break up right
N0help4u
Dec 7, 2008, 09:44 PM
Basically unless he is just going through something that is temporarily upsetting him. If this is the way he actually the real deal with him then yes break up.
womaningirl
Dec 7, 2008, 09:51 PM
Thanks I actually am going to speak with him right now so if he isn't going through something I am going to have to let this ship sink and let it sink for good because its not the 1st time we have gone out, it took me a long time to go out with him again almost a year and I thought that 2nd time around would work since we had a wounderful friendship after our 1st break up which is weird to occur so I gave it a try but I tried too long and he better have a good excuse
N0help4u
Dec 7, 2008, 09:54 PM
I gave my boyfriend every chance in the world. I kept telling him shape up or I am shipping out. The other day I 'shipped out' because we kept going round and round about his being irresponsible and expecting me to keep picking up the pieces. NOT worth it!