iwatanoprincess
Dec 7, 2008, 07:35 PM
We met last week. He came over to mine and stayed the night and the whole next day and left at 8pm the next night.
We talked the next day online. I sent him about 4 messages over the course of a full week. He answered all of them. In one of those messages I asked him to meet on Sunday after our big test.
He said I should mail him after the test.
During the break in the test, I mailed him and asked how its going. He responded very confidently and friendly.
But after the test ended. He sent me a long email saying he worked until 5 the day before slept until 6 couldn't fall asleep again and he was totally exhausted so he canceled.
I told him I was looking forward to seeing him but OK. And when I finally calmed down. I sent him a quick email saying that I had also felt drained after the test, so not to worry about anything and when he was ready to talk or meet, he should say so freely as I would be happy to talk / meet him.
And that was that.
I don't intend to mail him again though. I think he should make a move if he has any kind of interest or something. But I can't help but wondering if its already over before it started.
Do you think I am making the right decision to not contact him unless he contacts me? Do you think I appeared to needy?
We talked the next day online. I sent him about 4 messages over the course of a full week. He answered all of them. In one of those messages I asked him to meet on Sunday after our big test.
He said I should mail him after the test.
During the break in the test, I mailed him and asked how its going. He responded very confidently and friendly.
But after the test ended. He sent me a long email saying he worked until 5 the day before slept until 6 couldn't fall asleep again and he was totally exhausted so he canceled.
I told him I was looking forward to seeing him but OK. And when I finally calmed down. I sent him a quick email saying that I had also felt drained after the test, so not to worry about anything and when he was ready to talk or meet, he should say so freely as I would be happy to talk / meet him.
And that was that.
I don't intend to mail him again though. I think he should make a move if he has any kind of interest or something. But I can't help but wondering if its already over before it started.
Do you think I am making the right decision to not contact him unless he contacts me? Do you think I appeared to needy?