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bugaboo54
Dec 2, 2008, 10:59 PM
Hi! Ok so this doesn't really fall in a relationship catergory because it just doesn't. Haha but I was talking to this guy who is a few years older than me.. and we were texting just casual kind of stuff and he would call me "babe" and what not and then over the weekend while we both out (with separate parties) I had texted him and he had called me back late in that morning and I was sleeping long story short we had texted message the following morning after I apologized about missing his call and then we chatted a and he asked if I wanted to maybe get food the following night, and I said sure and he replid with OK good. Soooo the night comes and we didn't talk which was fine and then he calls me again late in the morning and I missed it again (apparently I'm a deep sleeper!) any ways I text him again like the day before apologizing for missing his call and no response.. and we were suppose to hang out that day... so that was it and then I left him a message a few days later asking if he received my message and he replied with a getting a new phone I'll text you tomorrow... never happened!

Sooo my question is what the hell happened? Haha not that you guys have th answer to that but I'm really not sure what to think. He calls me that early morning and that's it? Like what was he going to say to me at 3 in the morning?

talaniman
Dec 3, 2008, 09:02 AM
You weren't meant to hook up, so give it time, and if your text buddy doesn't contact you, then take the hint, and leave it alone.

southerngalps
Dec 3, 2008, 09:15 AM
Maybe he calls you at three in the morning because he is just getting home from the clubs or whatever and he wants some nookie?

Maybe not, but that was my first thought.

Good luck!

bugaboo54
Dec 3, 2008, 07:28 PM
Yeah you know I thought that way too. But I flat out told him that I wasn't that kind of girl so if that's what he was looking for then to just stop talking to me... but that was month ago that we talked and stopped talking... now today he texts me out of NO where! I'm very confused as to what his intentions are.. but I will most definitely let him go if all he wants is a hook up

kimsland
Dec 4, 2008, 06:19 AM
Yeah I'd say move away from the crazy psycho dude too
Just my thoughts though. Maybe you like that or something..