So the boyfriends birthday is coming up. I asked him what he wanted and he told me that he loves surprises... we have had sex before so no question there :p ha ha I am going to buy some new lingerie but I am not quite sure how to surprise him... I am really looking to blow his mind :) I know I will be going to his house for his birthday so I am not quite sure what to expect seeing as I have never been there before but any ideas are welcome. Thank you all

Does he live alone?

Hehe I don't know if I'm the right person to give advice... sing as I'm not that good about stuff like that ;)

Hehe but I have a friend who's good at it, I could ask her for some sexy suggestions...

Hello s:

Assuming you're going to be alone, show up in an overcoat with nothing but your sexy undies on underneath.

excon

Hello s:

Assuming you're going to be alone, show up in an overcoat with nothing but your sexy undies on underneath.

excon

I personally would prefer it without the underwear.

I know he lives with a sister she is 21 I am unaware of whether she will be there or not but my guess is that he will arrange for her to leave ;)

roxypox - I would greatly appreciate it if you could ask your friend ha a any ideas are helpful

So do you all think it would be better with or without lingerie? I am leaning towards with... guys especially what do would you find sexier?

Again, no lingerie imo..
If he likes kinky things AND if you are willing, why don't you try surprising him that way?
I think I speak for the mass majority of males when I say we like to do it rough every once in a while..
Get toys, play with those, ride him in different positions and take charge the whole way through, I'm sure he'll enjoy that as well.

Get a wig a different color and style from your regular cut. Dress differently than you normally would, and go to a local bar. Have him "pick you up" at the bar. If you have the money, get a hotel room.

If that's too much, skip the bar and the hotel room - the wig will do. And bring a camera (but keep the pics on your hard drive!).

YOu know what sort of things get him excited. It won't always be the same thing with every man. But find something you are willing to do or try.

Why don't you get that wig that jillian was speaking of. Put on really exotic and freaky make-up... and be waiting for him when he, say comes out of the bathroom, wearing only a pair of "porn" heels and a tie. Sit in a provocative position and then role play a little. Ask him his name and what he does for a living and just go on from there. Make it adventurous and mysterious.