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ashleysxysp
Nov 29, 2008, 09:54 PM
:(Okay well I think I might be pregnant, I had sex 3 weeks ago and the condom broke. And last week I was suppose to get my peorid but it never came, and it's still not here. And like all last week every morning I did NOT feel good at all like I couldn't even go to school but more in the day time I felt better, and I've been getting emotional like if I'm PMSing.

And like I canNOT tell my mom I'm to scared too. And just please this is my only help!

And I haven't tooken a test yet, I know I should but I don't know.. I'm just scared yo like I'm 13 and and I just... can't be.

bsd_tector
Nov 29, 2008, 10:10 PM
Early diagnosis is important whether you need good prenatal care or if you decide to terminate. Hiding your head in the sand will not help. Is it possible for you go to get yourself to a free clinic? If it is positive, they will give you great advice on how to break it to your mom or they can put in contact with a social worker to discuss options with adoption.
They can also tell you what the protocol is for termination. Is your boyfriend a minor as well? He could get into trouble if he's older. I hate to give you more grief to think about when you are freaking out enough already.
It's hard to hear, but somehow it will work out.
My first baby was a "woops" as well. She is 19 now. LOL
Let us know how you are.
P.S. In the future, don't have sex on days 12, 13 or 14 after you period because this is the time girls usually ovulate and are very fertile.

Alty
Nov 29, 2008, 10:25 PM
I'm just scared yo like I'm 13 and I just... can't be.

Yes, it can be. Sex = babies, no protection is 100% effective and as you said, the condom broke so the chances are pretty good.

Do you have a planned parenthood in your area? It's important that you get tested right away and it's also important that you talk to your parents.

They'll be mad at first, but they are your best bet to deal with all of this. Besides, if you are pregnant they'll find out soon anyway.

You're too young to be having sex. If you get lucky this time learn your lesson, remember how scared you are right now and wait until you are old enough and mature enough to have a child, because it's always a possibility.

Let us know how it works out.

Take care.

aja190912
Dec 1, 2008, 05:09 PM
WHERE TO BEGIN CHILD!! Calm down, relax and take a breather. Take a pregnancy test to make sure and talk to your parents. Take it from a teen mommy, it will be hard and YES they will get very upset but who better to be next to you to while you go through this hard situation. I am rather shocked about your age: 13!! You're still a baby yourself and shouldn't be involved in actions not even an adult can handle from time to time. Go to a free clinic so you can get a free test and help on getting medical attention ASAP. They will also help you take the bug step of talking to your parents. Hope it is a false alarm and so you can learn from your mistakes. Also stress can cause a delay in your period and you may take that as a possible pregnancy so JUST TAKE A Pregnancy test!
BEST OF LUCK!

Stephlove36
Jan 9, 2012, 02:08 AM
Well If I was u I would see a doctor get a blood test it's a lot better then a urin test from stores you might be pregnant if his sperm was injected in your vagina you should try to go to a local walgreens or walmart you have to be 17 to buy plan B it helps a lot but u have to take it anytime after 72 hr but you might be pregnant check a local doctor as soon as you can hope this helps
Good Luck!! :)