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babycakes123
Nov 29, 2008, 11:45 AM
so me and my boyfriend just got in a huge fight. I was getting mad at him because we are both home for break and every time I asked him to hang out he was busy so he called me late the other night and asked me to hang out so we could talk well I didnt want to talk because I had nothing to talk about I wasnt mad anymore and I didnt feel the need to talk about anything. Then he was like so do we mean nothing now and me being dumb said maybe well he didnt like that answer so he was like sit over there and he push me off his lap took out his cigarettes and asked me to get out of his car but I could find my phone so I didnt get out and he was like oh you want me to drive you home!!! and I was like no and got up at this point I didnt care about my phone but then he started the car and drove me home I got out slammed the door ( you know the deal) and went to my house well I didnt go inside hoping he would come back but he never did so the next day I texted him and he wouldnt talk to me he said he was done he finally called me later and yelled at me and I said sorry and what not and he was like its past sorry at this point im done with everything of course I wasnt happy but then he was like we will finish this conversation tomorrow and I was like why dont you want to talk now and he was like I dont want to talk about this when im drunk that definately made it ten times worst right there. I havent yet talked to him today because I dont know what to do I dont want him to break up with over something so dumb but I feel like I said all I could.

LifeChangesMan
Nov 29, 2008, 02:38 PM
Hey stop contacting him, trust me I've been in his shoes before over something dumb and he's probably a stubborn person... just guessing, just let him be when he wants to talk he'll contact you, and you aren't broken up until you guys tell one another, so don't worry about that either, just simply kick back relax hang out with some friends and wait for him to contact you, the worst thing you can do is keep calling him and bothering him just let him be he'll realize he needs you, or maybe he'll realize he doesn't and you can both go on with your lives...

p.s. I dig the pinkwriting!

Gabriella19
Nov 30, 2008, 10:34 AM
Relax take it easy

N0help4u
Nov 30, 2008, 04:27 PM
Sounds like you two are playing mind games. You didn't want to talk so NOW I don't want to talk. As long as you are playing these head games you are going to end up risking losing your relationship.
You need to wait on him to contact you. Then you need to meet with him and tell him exactly how you feel about him, what you like about him and where you would like to see things go with you and him.
You need to tell him that when you are upset you just need time to think and he shouldn't take it so personal.