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lkarla_05
Nov 28, 2008, 07:41 PM
Hi,
I am going out with this guy that is 16 years old. The first I met him he was nice and we ended up going out. Weeks passed by and we finally did it! 3 days after I found out that he was cheating on me with another girl. Me and the girl kept on talking about him. He stopped calling me and didn't want to answer my calls so I broke up with him. This girl told me that he had broken up with her and that he started dating her cousin. I kept on sending him messages and all that until he finallt responded. He called me one day and told me that he really missed me. I didn't want to believe him because he was alredy going out with the girl's cousin. She some how found out that we were calling each other and called me and told me that I can have him and all that. So I gave another chance and now he acts really different. We mostly fight a lot, now and we discus about stupid stuff and bring up the past. What should I do?:(

DDLM55
Nov 28, 2008, 08:19 PM
If he cheated on you once, chances are he will again. I don't think I would trust him. He is young and stupid, and you sound pretty young yourself. If he is cheating on you at 16 yrs old then he's got a looong life of breaking hearts ahead of him. Move on, you deserve better, yoou deserve someone that will treat you like a princess, someone that respects women. Good luck.

J_9
Nov 28, 2008, 08:23 PM
You are 13 and you had sex with a 16 year old?

Time to move on unless you are ready to be a mother.

babyshooter11
Nov 29, 2008, 12:46 AM
I'll be very blunt right now you got f***ed over BAD. Of course you should get over him! That's absolutely ridiculous. This guy is obviously a player. Get over him and soon because he's just going to screw you over again and again if you keep letting him. Don't make that mistake ever again.

erica renee
Nov 29, 2008, 01:03 AM
If he cheated once , he will again. That's how it is. He sounds like a player to me. And you don't need him.
If he's acting real different now, it's probably because he's trying to hide something, you need to find yourself a nice guy, and get rid of him.

LifeChangesMan
Nov 29, 2008, 02:48 PM
You don't want to give your love to someone who cheated on you, cheaters should never get another chance.