I met this girl online 1 year ago. We started talking and everything was great. I decided after talking to her for a while since I am doing very good for myself right now money wise, I ask her if she wanted to come and see me and she sure. So I was eager, so was she. So I went on and bough her the ticket. Now the thing I forgot to mention is that she is from Germany. So I bought her the ticket and to me surprise she came. Everything was good she stayed for several weeks with me. Took her out to different places and pretty much bough her everything. She went back to Germany and everything was good, So I decide to fly her again in a couple of months later. This time around when she came she was very different and acted really weird. Since I was so in love I did not think about it and actually ignore all the dam signs. But my gut feelings was telling me something is not right, so I hired a private investigator. And to my surprise I found there was another guy in the picture. So not only I felt that she used me to come to the US, but she used me to go see someone else. I broke it of, then she came back telling me that she was sorry and that she loves me a lot. I took her back. Now here is the crazy thing, she is supposed to come her in December and last week she told me that she wanted time for herself and that I need to give her time to miss me. And when she does miss me she will call me. So what I am wondering is if that is her way of saying it is over, or if there is still hope. I just need to know that because I have to figure out whether I have to cancel her flight or not.

I met this girl online 1 year ago. We started talking and everything was great. I decided after talking to her for a while since i am doing very good for myself right now money wise, i ask her if she wanted to come and see me and she sure. So i was eager, so was she. So i went on and bough her the ticket. Now the thing i forgot to mention is that she is from Germany. So i bought her the ticket and to me surprise she came. Everything was good she stayed for several weeks with me. Took her out to different places and pretty much bough her everything. She went back to Germany and everything was good, So i decide to fly her again in a couple of months later. This time around when she came she was very different and acted really weird. Since i was so in love i did not think about it and actually ignore all the dam signs. But my gut feelings was telling me something is not right, so i hired a private investigator. And to my surprise i found there was another guy in the picture. So not only i felt that she used me to come to the US, but she used me to go see someone else. I broke it of, then she came back telling me that she was sorry and that she loves me alot. I took her back. Now here is the crazy thing, she is supposed to come her in December and last week she told me that she wanted time for herself and that i need to give her time to miss me. And when she does miss me she will call me. So what i am wondering is if that is her way of saying it is over, or if there is still hope. I just need to know that because i have to figure out whether i have to cancel her flight or not.


No, it doesn't sound like there is any hope. That is what people say to each other when it's over.

Yes, you should cancel the flight... you should have cancelled the flight long ago.

One thing I forgot to mention, I do not know if it matters is that. After she said that she needs time to miss me. She also said before leaving that I love you a lot and that you are in my heart. This is driving me nuts man.

I was thinking of texting her this message what do you guys think

I know you want your space, and I have not heard from you since Saturday.
So I wonder what is your plan for the 11 of December. Also since you
Want your space and want to respect that if I do not hear from u
By next wenesday, I am going to assume you are not coming and just
Cancel the ticket.