jmw0713
Nov 26, 2008, 12:58 PM
Hey guys,
I have this girl that has emailed me a few times. She found me on one of the dating websites I am on. She lives in Fargo, ND and I live in Baltimore, MD, a very long distance away. She emailed me and me being the nice guy I am decided to write a FRIENDLY email back. I didn't ask any deep questions, just basic "get to know you" questions.
So 3 emails later, she is now saying that she thinks I am the one and asking if I'm ready for a commitment.
I don't even know her, nor have I seen her before, with the exception of a couple of photos she sent.
She seems like she is really nice and good looking from the few pics I have... but I don't really know this person at all.
I want to tell her that she is moving way to fast for me and that I think we should start as friends right now, be fore we make any plans to meet or whatever.
I am trying to word my next message in a way to not hurt her feelings and to keep the lines of communication open as just FRIENDS right now.
This is what I have so far:
How are you today? Did you get all of your business stuff squared away alright? Sorry I haven't sent any pictures of myself yet, I've been pretty busy the last couple of days. I promise I will as soon as I can!
I like talking to you, and I'm glad I brighten your day. You seem like a very nice, successful, and attractive woman, but I think you are trying to move a little to fast for me right now. I would like to talk with you more and get to know you a little better before we make any plans to meet or anything like that.
Please don't take this the wrong way. I do enjoy writing you and getting emails from you, but I don't feel I really know you enough yet to start making any plans for anything right now. I hope you understand.
You think this will work? Any tips?
Thanks,
J
I have this girl that has emailed me a few times. She found me on one of the dating websites I am on. She lives in Fargo, ND and I live in Baltimore, MD, a very long distance away. She emailed me and me being the nice guy I am decided to write a FRIENDLY email back. I didn't ask any deep questions, just basic "get to know you" questions.
So 3 emails later, she is now saying that she thinks I am the one and asking if I'm ready for a commitment.
I don't even know her, nor have I seen her before, with the exception of a couple of photos she sent.
She seems like she is really nice and good looking from the few pics I have... but I don't really know this person at all.
I want to tell her that she is moving way to fast for me and that I think we should start as friends right now, be fore we make any plans to meet or whatever.
I am trying to word my next message in a way to not hurt her feelings and to keep the lines of communication open as just FRIENDS right now.
This is what I have so far:
How are you today? Did you get all of your business stuff squared away alright? Sorry I haven't sent any pictures of myself yet, I've been pretty busy the last couple of days. I promise I will as soon as I can!
I like talking to you, and I'm glad I brighten your day. You seem like a very nice, successful, and attractive woman, but I think you are trying to move a little to fast for me right now. I would like to talk with you more and get to know you a little better before we make any plans to meet or anything like that.
Please don't take this the wrong way. I do enjoy writing you and getting emails from you, but I don't feel I really know you enough yet to start making any plans for anything right now. I hope you understand.
You think this will work? Any tips?
Thanks,
J