A few weeks ago I met a girl at a concert and started dating her. Last night she came over and we got intimate. She said she was on birth control but I wanted to use a condom (which we didn't have). So she rolled over and went to sleep. I felt like a douche bag for not having sex with her and now it seems as though I don't trust her. I'm just thinking about it allot and want some advice.

You shouldn't feel bad at all! I really respect you for wanting to use double methods of birth control.

The fact that you want to be safe with her should show her that you are a trustworthy person. She shouldn't be angry or upset with you for feeling uncomfortable and wanting to be safe.

(Edited for language, I apologize JudyKayTee)

Thanks, that puts me at ease!

You're welcome :) Take care

Not only for double methods of birth control...

But for std's.

You just met this girl at a concert. You never know!

Very smart thinking! I commend you!

I think you're very smart! That's what my husband and I used to do before we got married. Birth control isn't 100% effective. You could've be on this site a month or so down the road with a post subject "the girl I slept with said she was on the pill- now I'm going to be a daddy." aren't you glad you're careful?

I think you did the right thing. You don't know this girl well enough, she could have HIV for all you know.