I just met this guy about 2 months ago and was instantly attracted to him. I know him a lot better now, and I know he likes me, and feels the same way about the chemistry (hugs me, compliments me, flirts with me). He asked me out once, but I already had plans that night so he tagged along (and bought my dinner). Now we can't seem to get out of this weird group date/friend zone mentality when we go out with my friends (not his) but only talk to each other, look at each other, etc. He has said to me he doesn't really like high school relationships. This guy is leaving in 7 weeks, and I can see how that would make him hold off, I know I'm going to miss him whatever I do (I miss him if I don't see him for just one day.) I want to tell him that I would rather get my heart broken when he leaves than never have anything concrete with him, but I don't want to sound so dramatic. I also want some of the physical stuff that considerate people don't normally pull out on group dates (like I said, chemistry). I also have already seen him do this with one girl, but even she says she was way more into him than he was into her. I don't know - should I make a move, or just stick with the group thing I have.

Oh... I should say that while I've been in other similar/sucky situtations before, I've never been in a relationship. I don't even know that's what I want: I basically want what we've got plus the physical stuff and a little time alone.

I want to tell him that I would rather get my heart broken when he leaves than never have anything concrete with him, but I don't want to sound so dramatic.

So tell him. There's no way to make that happen without a little drama... Just make sure to keep it sensible.