Hi again, I just need some advice on something's again. Okay so on Nov.21 I experienced some light bleeding which was light pinkish. After about a couple days it got a little heavier. But I have no cramps or anything. I herd that you can bleed and be pregnant still is that true? I also herd that if it is a mild bleed it could be cause your cervix are streching. Im so confused. Its been three weeks now. This past weekend I made love and he came in me three more times. I just need to know if this is regular or what not. I haven't seen a doctor yet cause I'm to scared to know what he is going to say. Can you please help me
Thanks a Million!:(

I'm not trying to be smart but if you are so scared of being pregnant why are you letting your boyfriend in side you that's just stupid I'm sorry but it is

All right Smurf69. I said I'm scared to see a doctor! Not scared of being pregnant! Ive already had a miscarriage that's why k! So I asked for some advice not for you to be rude thanks!

I'm not trying to be rude and I'm sorry to hear you had a miscarrige but you didn't make your situation very clear there is no point sitting around being worried see a doctor and put your mind at rest

Okay I took it the wrong way. Im sorry, but I have all the pregnancy symptoms and everything. Im just scared. I have this bleeding but it doesn't follow any cramps or anything. You know but really just need some help. I know you can have your periods when pregnant cause my aunt had four. And she has twins lol

I can see what your saying its something we will never fully understand I would see a doctor because I can imagine you are stressed about this and stress can lead to you being un well and etc you know this might be notting

So honestly what do u think is going on?

Well I don't think you have to worrie about cervix streatching as far as I know that is done by a doctor to speed up labour after that I wouldn't like to say as I'm not a doctor and could be a hundred miles out

K thank you

"Cervix stretching" only happens during labor.

Well then J_9 can u help me figure out what is going on with my body then?

well then J_9 can u help me figure out what is goin on with my body then?

I can try to help, but understand that I cannot make a diagnosis for 2 reasons... 1) I am a nurse and a medical diagnosis is out of my scope of practice and 2) I do not know your medical history.

Now... Back to the question..

There are many reasons we can be late, skip periods or have irregular spotting or bleeding.

Unusual weight loss or gain can cause fluctuations in our periods as well as stress. Every once in a while there is no rhyme or reason for a strange period, it's just that mother nature throws us a curve ball every once in a while.

I'm sorry, but I don't recall if you have taken a HPT yet. If you have, did you use first morning urine? If not, I suggest waiting about a week and take a HPT using first morning urine. If it comes up positive, well you know the answer. If it comes up negative you may either want to visit your doctor or see if you get your period next month.

All right well I'm not under weight. I get my periods on time every month. I had spotting for about 4 days maybe. I haven't took a HPT yet either. But I will use the morning pee, I always do. I have had a miscarriage already that was back in March of this year. My medical history is good I hardly get sick lol. But yeah if you can help anymore please feel free to give me the advice