I have a 3 year old girl that is so sturborn and has such an attitude no one can deal with her. We have been placing her in time out and it worked for a few days then stopped working. She will flip out over the smallest thing and from there won't listen to anything, hits people, kicks and so on. When her mother is gone she will listen to everything I say but as soon as mom comes home she's a nightmare all over. Nothing seems to work with this child, spank her she don't care, time out she loves it, It has gotten to the point that she is getting between her mother and I and causing more fights. I am bigger in disclipine and mom is not... I need help before I it gets to far. Any ideas? :confused:

Get her checked for ADHA.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity

My son was exactly like that and he was getting into trouble at school... to make it short
We took him to his doc and he was diagnosed with it. He takes meds for it and is totally changed boy