So I have been dating this guy for about two months now, and I am crazy about him.
The only thing is I met him online, and it kind of scares me that I don't know any background information on him. He is wonderful, and I have met his mom and dad, they seem nice. But for some reason I am paranoid? He talks about his ex a lot and if bothers me... He just refers things to her a lot.. I know that he wouldn't cheat on me, it just bothers me. His ex of three years lives in the apartments across the street from him, and since they are both living here to go to school at the local college, when he goes home for holidays, she goes home to, and they live in the same town 4 hours from me... it makes me crazy. Although I have no reason to because he tells me he loves me and she doesn't even have his new number. How can I just relax? I spend almost everyday with him, so how could he cheat on me?:mad::mad:

If he is talking about her a lot to me that is a sign that he is not over her. You should simply tell him that since it is obvious that he is not ready to move on with his life that you can't wait any longer. That you prefer to be the only one in his life and when he is ready to commit to a relationship with you that he can call.