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De4rest
Nov 20, 2008, 09:27 PM
So, I like this guy. We've been talking for about 3 months, he contacted me most of the time. I am not sure if he likes me or not. He calls me almost everyday but starting about a week ago he calls me everyday. Well, now he doesn't call me at all. It has been 3 days now. Does he loose interest in me or what? What should I do or act to gain his attention back? I am 21 by the way.

ZoeMarie
Nov 20, 2008, 09:39 PM
Have you two met before? Or you just talk on the phone? Have you tried calling him? Maybe since he has been calling you every day he was getting discouraged because you don't call him? (that is if you don't call him) Hard telling. How did you guys meet?

De4rest
Nov 20, 2008, 09:44 PM
Yes, we hung out couple times before and we had fun. We always joked around and I texted him before too. He alternate, texting and calling. Last time I talked to him, he seemed to enjoy our conversation. I just don't want to call him first because I do not want to appear clingy or needy. I meet him through friends but they are not my close friends just like hanging out friends. So I cannot really tell them about me liking him. I dropped a lot of hints to him though... I am not sure if it is making him loose interest or not.

ZoeMarie
Nov 20, 2008, 09:47 PM
Send him a text, something casual like "how's it going? we should hang out again soon," and see where it goes. Sometimes guys don't pick up on hints though, I know my husband doesn't. You really got to spell things out sometimes. No offense guys. Lol

De4rest
Nov 20, 2008, 11:04 PM
Thanks for the advice :)

ZoeMarie
Nov 20, 2008, 11:05 PM
No problem. Let us know how it goes.

Good luck!:)