Hey - Virgin to this! But here goes! I've been seeing a married guy and for an affair with a very well off man not getting too much out of it! Now he's playing cool and I'm annoyed! I feel I should have at least got flowers or chocolate throughout... I mean I had dinner and that but was seriously like every other "other woman" ignored far too much! So now I'm thinking perhaps it's time to be difficult! I think it's about time he gave me something... gosh that sounds all wrong but at the moment I feel like after a load of promises and not much else I feel like a cheap tart! Yes I did it to myself... yes I am a controlling, strong, sexy woman who gets a lot of attention but... I feel like I'm not playing the game properly. And what I really want is a king charles or a bengal kitten (of course because of pedigree and colouring I would need to choose!) so how does the break up gift work?! Ladies I need advice! Do I become emotional so he asks, "ok, what makes this easy/going to cost me" or do I spell it out... Come on ladies... or even those men out there that feel like helping... :cool:

I feel like after a load of promises and not much else I feel like a cheap tart!

You are a cheap tart, and he will give you nothing because he can always find cheap tarts.

Dump him, and get another guy, who likes tarts, and be upfront, and ask for cash and dinner.

Second thought, forget the dinner, to time consuming, have two guys, who like tarts, and go strictly cash.

Even better, since we are on to something, raise your prices, then you wouldn't be a cheap tart.
You'd be an expensive one, and wouldn't have to run from man, to man, to afford dinner.

Ever thought about advertising online? That's what other enterprising ho's do?

Then you could move up from tart completely.

If you didn't state your prices before hand then it's too late to go back now and ask for more.

When you get your next customer, oops, I mean boyfried , you should be upfront about what you expect. Tigers, puppy's, cash, dinner, chocolate, flowers.

As for this guy, well, you're his little slap and tickle, the wife gets all the good stuff, you just get used. That's the way it works, next time do your research.

Altweg and talaniman said it best of course, but I just... I'm at a loss for words... why on earth would you date a married man if you're digging for gold?

As for the cheap tart things... I'm glad you are able to admit it yourself (that you are able to call a spade a spade... )

You really are just some cheaptart he can call when he needs it... Move on!

I feel like a cheap tart!

I AGREE:

Here's your Greenie 13950