View Full Version : Friend vs. Boyfriend
andydall
Nov 16, 2008, 07:57 PM
My friend asked me out 2 years ago, and I kind of rudely turned him down...
It is now obviously 2 years later... and I really like him...
I don't know what to say or how to act, because last time when he asked me out it made things so awkward and everythings finally back to normal between us...
I just wanted to know if anyone had any idea what I should do...
I know its kind of a big question but I just thought maybe someone had had a similar situation.
~thank youz
:)
friend4u178
Nov 16, 2008, 08:03 PM
So does he still like you?
andydall
Nov 16, 2008, 08:07 PM
That's the problem, I don't know, and I'm afraid to ask, cause like I said last time stuff like that came up it got REALLY awkward between us..
friend4u178
Nov 16, 2008, 08:12 PM
Well he made the move last time so he will probably be reluctant to try again fearing the same response.
I think you should maybe mention to him that you were a little harsh last time and possibly made a mistake by refusing him. This will stir his curiosity.
andydall
Nov 16, 2008, 08:17 PM
Lol, thank you
Guess I just got to step up and say something...
Your right though, its my turn to make the first move... *crosses fingers* well, hopein for the best!
friend4u178
Nov 16, 2008, 08:34 PM
Good Luck!
And let us know how you got on :)
andydall
Nov 16, 2008, 08:39 PM
Kk, will do
Thank youz!
andydall
Nov 16, 2008, 09:03 PM
anymore suggestions are appreciated though =P
xxariesxx
Nov 16, 2008, 09:58 PM
friend4u178 is right. Tell him you were thinking about it and regretted reacting so harshly when he told you he had feelings for you.
Are you worried about how he would react to you now if you told him your feelings? You still remained friends even though it was awkward for awhile, right? Well I don't see why that would change even if you told him your feelings. As long as you're both single, go for it.
andydall
Nov 17, 2008, 05:53 PM
Lol, thanks and... he feels the same way too!! *SQUEALS*
I talked to him today... omg...
jjwoodhull
Nov 17, 2008, 06:01 PM
If it has taken this long for him to get over the rejections then I would assume 2 things - that he still likes you and that he will not put himself in that vulnerable position again. That means it's up to you.
But he might still be worried about getting hurt. So you should take the time to explain that you feel bad that you were rude to him in the past and that you have matured since then. Appologize for hurting his feelings and assure him that you will not intentionally hurt him again.
Good luck - let us know how it goes.