jervemn
Nov 14, 2008, 10:59 PM
I am in my late 20's and am crushing HARD! A group of friends and I go out once a week to a local bar--I met a guy there that absolutely takes the wind out of me. I think he is absolutely amazing and I want to tell him that... but it is easier said than done. Here is why: He is going through some personal issues right now that I won't get into (but it is not woman issues)! He goes to the same place we go to every week and we are getting closer and talking more each time we see each other. I look so forward to seeing him and I am hoping he feels the same. He seems to be flirting with me as well... I am a very confident woman and I sometimes find myself at a loss for words around him. I REALLY want him to ask me out!! He does seem interested, but I feel like he should be interested ENOUGH to ask me out... or for my phone number... something! I feel like it's pretty obvius that I am into him, but I don't want to be the one to ask for a couple of reasons... 1) Because I really do think that if he really is into me, he would/will ask me out (He is very confident and comfortable with himself) 2) Because he is going through some really hard things now that are only going to get harder for awhile and I feel like I am being selfish or something by expecting or wanting him to even really have time to invest right now... What do you think? Should I tell him in plain english that I am crushing, or should I just leave it in his court?
WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE SOME MALE PERSPECTIVE AS WELL! THANKS!
WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE SOME MALE PERSPECTIVE AS WELL! THANKS!