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snc224
Nov 14, 2008, 07:48 PM
I dreamt that my dead husband came to me and was holding me with love and comfort.
When I woke up, the dream felt so real that I could still remember how I felt in his arms. A feeling that I have not had since his death 13 yrs ago. What does this mean?

interpreterdeaf
Nov 14, 2008, 08:08 PM
What a wonderful blessing! I had an almost identical experience many years ago. I don't know what your beliefs are but I choose to believe this was the soul of your husband checking on you and letting you know he is still with you and protecting you even after all these years.
Also, are you in a relationship you have been questioning? Perhaps this dream is an answer to those questions.

snc224
Nov 15, 2008, 05:59 AM
Hi, About my husband in my dream I am not seeing anyone. My grown boys are not speaking to each other for three months now. This is taking a toll on me and I am very sad. I try to be the go between but it is exhausting me.

N0help4u
Nov 16, 2008, 03:49 PM
They say that dreams can be a way some of our loved ones that passed on use to communicate with us so as interpreterdeaf said what a blessing.

flinty5
Nov 17, 2008, 09:38 PM
I believe your dream to be a blessing and his way of letting you know he is still with you. As for your grown up sons - you should not be the go between. They are adults and should be able to sort themselves out without involving you. This must be exhausting mentally for you and do you really need it. It is time for you to tell them to grow up and get with the programme and you will no longer tolerate being the piggy in the middle - you should tell them the effects it is having on you and hopefully they will realise how selfish they are being. I know we want our children to get along but sometimes we need to step back and let them get on with it. Good Luck :)

HistorianChick
Nov 19, 2008, 08:11 AM
Dreams are illustrations... from the book your soul is writing about you. ~Marsha Norman

While I cannot say I know what you've felt in your dreams because I am not married, I have had a similar dream with a hug from my beloved Daddy. I find that at my most stressful times, I'll dream of a hug, a comforting little gesture, something... from my Daddy. I think it is our subconscious trying to comfort us... trying to remind us that we're going to be OK, and just because we have lost a lover/comforter, we are not alone, that we will make it, and that it will all turn out for our good in the end.

Gambrel1
Feb 10, 2013, 01:58 PM
I had a very similar dream the other night. My husband has been dead for 6 months. I miss his hugs so much. I'm not really much of a dreamer, I don't remember my dreams and they never wake me up. He came to me in my dream and we talked and walked and hugged.,. Oh the hug.. I truly felt it.. I can still feel it in my soul. He was not in pain and looked so very handsome. He told me that everything will be all right. I woke up saying don't go, don't go... I lay there crying and crying for a few hours. It was so real. He is here with me. I prayed to God that he would send him again sometime. I feel truly blessed to have had that time with him again...