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Thomaslover_c97
Nov 14, 2008, 08:35 AM
cAlright, Theres this boy that I really really like! but I don't have the nerve to talk to him. Yeah I know..Just be yourself and over come your shyness but, I never talk to anyone. He talks me to alot and he knows that I like him (cuz my friend told him) but I just can't talk to him. How could I over come my shyness without studdering or turning red?:confused:

Chin-Chee
Nov 14, 2008, 10:43 AM
What you should do is like be yourself like you said, and like start a conversation with him like say what is your favortie sport etc, but if you start to stutter or turn red its OK, usually that happens even with boys to, and if he don't like the fact that happens to you then just move on he wasn't really worth it! Good luck!

Thomaslover_c97
Nov 15, 2008, 05:26 PM
Thanks for the advice chin =D

Femur
Nov 16, 2008, 06:51 PM
I think everyone has this problem, even him. I'm a guy and I talk to girls all the time, and enjoy it because they have different views than my friends. I think you should start by talking to guys you've known for a while and you consider to be your friends. Don't be afraid to flirt a little bit either, I screw around with plenty of girl's heads and they do the same to me, its all in good fun. You answered your own question too, just be yourself and talk about things you know about, don't try to act like you're someone you're not. Talk to some of his friends and maybe they'll realize how cool you are and get on him for what he's missing out on. Just have fun.

Thomaslover_c97
Nov 20, 2008, 08:54 PM
Thanks Femur :)

ZoeMarie
Nov 20, 2008, 09:57 PM
I think it would be cool if like femur said, you talked to his friends and asked them to put a good word in for you. Then after a little while ask him if his friends talked to him. Just have fun and joke around.

Gabriella19
Nov 21, 2008, 08:27 AM
1.If you feel really shy talking to him let your friend or someone that you know to join in the conversation... and then you will find it more normal to talk to him... =]

Thomaslover_c97
Nov 21, 2008, 07:59 PM
[B][I]that's perfetc idea Gab! Thanks so much :)

Chin-Chee
Nov 22, 2008, 08:30 AM
Your welcome Thomaslover!:D

Gabriella19
Nov 23, 2008, 11:26 AM
I 'm really happy that you found my idea perfect by the way good luck...