JWmeg
Nov 13, 2008, 01:30 PM
Hey,
I'm 16 years old, and I'm in 6th form, and a few days ago my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. To be honest this was really unexpected to me, it was over the phone, and just generally upsetting. He said that he wants everything to be the same as before, still meeting up, being best friends, going to each others family functions, with the only exeption being no sexual contact at all. He's in a few of my classes, so I see him every day, and he still gives me hugs, and talks to me a lot.
I don't know if I should move on from him, and then for anything that could happen just fade. But I'm also deeply cut by the things he's said to me over the last few days. I still love him, and I know people say your to young to know what love is, but I think you know when you have it. But because I'm so hurt I'm not to sure if I can just get back with him and not dwell in what he did to me. I don't know how to even move on, let alone if I can do it.
He has said that if I wanted to get back together, but I don't want to be with someone that I'm not sure even wants to be with me! He knows that I'm completely distraught but the way I cryed at school for the last do says if someone asked if I was okay, and by the way I looked- I had 2 hours sleep and I didn't want to look in the mirror.
Basically, I feel that he hasn't made up his mind at all really, and if he has he isn't telling me any of it. I'm completely torn and just need advise, from someone who knows what to do, or has been through this, because none of my friends have and I feel as if I have no one to turn to on this.
Thank you if you can help.
JWmeg.
I'm 16 years old, and I'm in 6th form, and a few days ago my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. To be honest this was really unexpected to me, it was over the phone, and just generally upsetting. He said that he wants everything to be the same as before, still meeting up, being best friends, going to each others family functions, with the only exeption being no sexual contact at all. He's in a few of my classes, so I see him every day, and he still gives me hugs, and talks to me a lot.
I don't know if I should move on from him, and then for anything that could happen just fade. But I'm also deeply cut by the things he's said to me over the last few days. I still love him, and I know people say your to young to know what love is, but I think you know when you have it. But because I'm so hurt I'm not to sure if I can just get back with him and not dwell in what he did to me. I don't know how to even move on, let alone if I can do it.
He has said that if I wanted to get back together, but I don't want to be with someone that I'm not sure even wants to be with me! He knows that I'm completely distraught but the way I cryed at school for the last do says if someone asked if I was okay, and by the way I looked- I had 2 hours sleep and I didn't want to look in the mirror.
Basically, I feel that he hasn't made up his mind at all really, and if he has he isn't telling me any of it. I'm completely torn and just need advise, from someone who knows what to do, or has been through this, because none of my friends have and I feel as if I have no one to turn to on this.
Thank you if you can help.
JWmeg.