Hi ma name is 123455 and I have a problem OK my ex is like now my best friends bt we have confessed 2 each other that we still got feelings 4 each other still bt da problem is that he has a girlfriend and he doesn't want 2 hurt her and neither do I what do I do? I'm sooooo confused!! PLEASE HELP!! :confused::confused::(:(:(:(

First, how old are you? Second, this is not text messaging, we use full words and sentences here.

I think that it is natural to still have feelings for each other. But I think that he either needs to break up with his girlfriend and be with you or you two need to distance your friendship. There is nothing wrong with you being friends but you need to put some space there. Like only hang out when his girlfriend or your new boyfriend are around. If he is willing to cheat on his new girlfriend with you chances are he will cheat on you with someone else. I think that neither one of you should be in a relationship right now including with each other until you get things figured out. It is not fair to the other people in your life. Good luck

Don't go there, just turn around and RUN! I had this problem about five months ago and it turned out ugly for no one but me. You can not impose on another persons relationship, I do not care if you two have feelings for one another, he obviously likes her more or why would he still be dating her? Do not date him or even think about that until they have broken up. Even then, my opinion is that you should wait at least two weeks after they break up to see if they are really broken up and the coast is clear. For all you know, if you don't wait, then you might end up being the rebound girl.

Yeah I agree you should definatley stay clear it isn't fair on you or her to get into that situation. You need to tell him that he has to make a decision either you or her as he can't have both