Well since the day I sent her that text message on her birthday, She has been calling me and talking to me about her life and her friends. I still have some feelings for her but I'm not trying to get her back. I know it is not right to be talking to her but is she trying to get me back or is she just being friendly?

Dude ask her. Honesty is a great thing.

This is why NC must be stuck to, because every time they get back to us or call us we start to wonder why and over analyze everything. I wouldn't ask her, I would just get back on the horse and start NC again. I did the Same thing a week ago and had to start over.

She is trying to be friends with you.

If you can't handle that you must immediately go back to No Contact. Since you still have some feelings for, and most likely always will, it may be too early to pursue this any further without getting hurt.

The choice is yours.

Well since the day I sent her that text message on her birthday, She has been calling me and talking to me about her life and her friends. I still have some feelings for her but i'm not trying to get her back. I know it is not right to be talking to her but is she trying to get me back or is she just being friendly?


It could be friendly or it could be to establish a good relationship if ever she wanted to come back and some women do it to let you know that they are completely happy with their lives and its sort of like a rub in your face.

But lets face it, you do care if she wants you back otherwise you wouldn't be reading too much into her actions, It sounds to me that this communication is starting to confuse you, the best thing to do is to go back to the NC, that way you won't mix up her being friendly with her wanting you back.

If you can't be comfortable with her being friendly back off. I think its you over thinking everything, more than its her sending signals that she wants you back.