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Nov 10, 2008, 02:31 PM
I'm dating a guy whom I won't specify but he's really nice and sweet. Everything good right? One day I remembered him from when I was younger. He was the guy that got a girl in my school pregnant. Don't get the wrong idea though, he took all the proper percautions; got tested, put her on the pill. Everything. She forgot to take the pill. Now, I know I know, you guys are probably gasping a bit right now; it gets worse.
She took off with their child to heaven knows where. (They broke up). She posts everyday on the internet about how this new guy she has treats the baby like his own. And it hurts my boyfriend. He really wanted to do the right thing, maybe not be with the mother but he wanted to be there and help raise the child. She took that from him.
Everyday I wonder how he does it. He assured me that if she came back he wouldn't go back to her but just ask that he be a part of his child's life. I believe him of course. But my parents found out. And they disapproved. Not just a little bit... A lot. They also found out that he does pot. Me and him had already talked about it and he's only going to do it on weekends but if I see him that day he's not alowd to do it the day he sees me. Or after. I hope you understand my predicament. Please don't be really judgemental, I just need some help. My parents don't me speaking OF him, they don't want me talking to him on the phone. They don't want any of that. I already explained that I want him over for dinner sometime. My brother likes him and my brother NEVER likes guys that I bring home, he talked with Greg about dating me and all that important stuff, and I respected my brothers privacy and didn't ask about it. My mother liked him upon contact with him. My dad was iffy, but that's normal.
Now they're saying what a bad guy he is. My brother still thinks he's awesome, and he think it's funny that he has a kid. Well... what do you guys think? Do you think you can help me with my little "problem"?
She took off with their child to heaven knows where. (They broke up). She posts everyday on the internet about how this new guy she has treats the baby like his own. And it hurts my boyfriend. He really wanted to do the right thing, maybe not be with the mother but he wanted to be there and help raise the child. She took that from him.
Everyday I wonder how he does it. He assured me that if she came back he wouldn't go back to her but just ask that he be a part of his child's life. I believe him of course. But my parents found out. And they disapproved. Not just a little bit... A lot. They also found out that he does pot. Me and him had already talked about it and he's only going to do it on weekends but if I see him that day he's not alowd to do it the day he sees me. Or after. I hope you understand my predicament. Please don't be really judgemental, I just need some help. My parents don't me speaking OF him, they don't want me talking to him on the phone. They don't want any of that. I already explained that I want him over for dinner sometime. My brother likes him and my brother NEVER likes guys that I bring home, he talked with Greg about dating me and all that important stuff, and I respected my brothers privacy and didn't ask about it. My mother liked him upon contact with him. My dad was iffy, but that's normal.
Now they're saying what a bad guy he is. My brother still thinks he's awesome, and he think it's funny that he has a kid. Well... what do you guys think? Do you think you can help me with my little "problem"?