This guy Im really into and haven't known where I stand with him because of lack of contact from him texts me on Friday, says he's missed me, he understands he should have been intouch earlier, hopes I want to see him again as he will be upset if I don't. What did I do, tell him I didn't think he cared, that I've moved on and met another guy. How crazy am I, I think the world of him and nobody else comes close. I don't know what to do, should I just accept it was probably for the best or try and talk to him and explain I didn't mean it. Hate the thought of not seeing him again. But surely he will think Im mad if I admit it was a lie.

It's called communication. Use it. Tell him how you feel and deal with whatever happens after that. You have nothing to lose!

I can't see how you can be so interested in someone that shows none to you. A call every blue moon is not interest, but boredom.

At least stop playing games with the new guy, as he must just be a back up plan or a rebound or whatever. Be honest with yourself, and its easier being honest with others.