OK so there's this girl I'm trying to get with. We flirt on and off, talk on myspace a lot and at school. We also sit at lunch together so we talk then too. I've come to realize after all this time I've known her, I'm starting to like her and get closer to her. And I think she likes me too, but not really as much as me. But there's this other guy that she talks to on myspace and they kind of flirt a little too. I don't recognize him so I figured he goes to a different school.

I want to know some techniques or ways that I can get her closer to me and focus on me more and like me more because I really want to date her. Soooo any ideas?

Write her a song, and sing it to her in person.

Start with a good poem, and then add the tune.

You'll win her heart if you put your heart into it.

Try making plans to hang out with her, but unless she makes the plans herself don't make more because you'll seem too eager. Just be yourself and remember to try and be confident. Confidance is a very attractive quality a lot of people like. But if you're one of the sensitive types of people show her you care but in a sense that isn't so obvious. Be sweet and mysterious. Remember though, don't over-do on anything unless it's absolutely necessary.

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Here is what I did to sweep my first GF off her feet. She was a senior in high school, me a freshmen in college. I sent her flowers while she was at lunch (6 pink and 6 white roses). It absolutely made her day, I mean she lit up from what I hear. I almost get tears thinking about it because we juts broke up a couple of months ago... anyway, just go for it. Do something completely unexpected and always remember to be a gentleman. It can work, and I wish you all the luck in the world.

Your already hanging out a lot, just ask her out, and show her a great time, and NEVER worry about the competition.

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