I am married and have an ex-"friend". My ex lives directly next door and will not leave me alone. I sent her a signed certified letter requesting that she stops calling me and cease all attemps to contact me. That worked for 2 months. She is at it again. Now what? Restraining order out of the question? Any help is appreciated. I live in Ma.

Hello oh:

Move. I know, that's not what you wanted to hear... But, if they're NOT breaking the law, and you refuse to get a restraining order, that's all that's left.

Exocn

Change your phone number to an unlisted one. There is no excuse for that one. Sorry.

I'm not sure what your state allows but in Wisconsin, you can get a harassment restraining order. Can you prove that this woman is actually harassing you or is it just that you don't like her?