breathless1
Nov 3, 2008, 08:45 AM
I want someone's opinion on this. Men and women.
A man meets a woman and supposedly falls in love shortly thereafter.
In the beginning he says he loves her immensely and says she is beautiful but does the following things. Mimicks her walk and laughs about it, says she has fat. He only did it twice.
He tried to make up for this after by saying that he really loves her the way she is but obviously to her this was predominantly noticed and she can't get over the fact that he pointed that out.
He also is one of those men that expects a continuously high standard i.e. hair, nails, feet, bikini, leg wax always freshly done and perfect as well as a certain style of dress that should always be worn i.e. heels, skirts, make up, etc etc.
This was whilst dating. What would the implications be for marriage?
Also, from the mans perspective. She does not find him very attractive although she did tell him he has nice cheeks and a nice smile. She did tell him when they first met about this but then she started to like him.
He is not very physcially fit so she did require that he start to work out because she is attractive to physical fitness. She is working out and quite fit, not fat, - really, its just the bit where the bra is pulled tight on the back that he saw sticking out a bit, which can be trimmed by working out, which is what she is doing.
She told him she likes it when he dresses smartly. He has a very big head (to his admittace not hers) and shaves it. He is also quite thin in casual clothes i.e. jeans which is why she suggested he wears smarter clothing i.e. slightly loose suits. (they are loose because he is still losing weight).
If she would have told him he has a big head would he not have been offended?
I don't think they are a match.
A man meets a woman and supposedly falls in love shortly thereafter.
In the beginning he says he loves her immensely and says she is beautiful but does the following things. Mimicks her walk and laughs about it, says she has fat. He only did it twice.
He tried to make up for this after by saying that he really loves her the way she is but obviously to her this was predominantly noticed and she can't get over the fact that he pointed that out.
He also is one of those men that expects a continuously high standard i.e. hair, nails, feet, bikini, leg wax always freshly done and perfect as well as a certain style of dress that should always be worn i.e. heels, skirts, make up, etc etc.
This was whilst dating. What would the implications be for marriage?
Also, from the mans perspective. She does not find him very attractive although she did tell him he has nice cheeks and a nice smile. She did tell him when they first met about this but then she started to like him.
He is not very physcially fit so she did require that he start to work out because she is attractive to physical fitness. She is working out and quite fit, not fat, - really, its just the bit where the bra is pulled tight on the back that he saw sticking out a bit, which can be trimmed by working out, which is what she is doing.
She told him she likes it when he dresses smartly. He has a very big head (to his admittace not hers) and shaves it. He is also quite thin in casual clothes i.e. jeans which is why she suggested he wears smarter clothing i.e. slightly loose suits. (they are loose because he is still losing weight).
If she would have told him he has a big head would he not have been offended?
I don't think they are a match.