I was friends with this girl and never had a Girlfriend before, I was friends with her for like 2 months and I kind of knew she liked me and I liked her a lot so I deciided to ask her out. She said yes, after she said yes I explained to her that she is my first girlfriend and that I might go allittle slow and she said she was perfectly fine with that. She hasn't had a boyfriend since 6th grade and he was an (she's now in the beginning of her junior year and I'm a sophmore). She has reminded me many times that she is fine with me going slow, it took me a month to hold her hand and hug her and after that it was the day before our 3 month that I kissed her for the first time. When I kissed her I kind of screwed up allittle and we both agreed that we will have to work allittle bit on that. I knew that she wanted me to kiss her because we have talked about it before. The day that I kissed her that night I was talking to her online and she said that we need a "break" and that she thinks that she loves me and needs to find out things such as what college she wants to go to and what job she wants to get, she also said that she is unsure if she wants to be in a serious relationship at this point in her life. When she said this I was un complete shock because we never had any arguments or anything and it seemed as if everything was going perfectly, right before she broke up with me I was thinking about how I'm going to try to kiss her better next time and work on that and start actually doing things like putting my arm around her and other small things like that that I allways wanted to do but never really did because I'm kind of a socially awkward person. She constantly reminded me for like the next week that there still can be a chance but she wants me to move on if I find someone and I told her to do the same and she can tell me anything if she ever feels the need too and that I will never pressure her to go back out with me and I will wait for her to ask me out and I won't ask her out because I really want to make sure she is the one that wants it and it's truly what's best for her. We are still best friends hang out allot and talk allot too. I was thinking about why she could have broke up with me and I came to the conclusion that it could have been that she thought she liked me and wanted to be in a relationship with me but once I kissed her she realized that she want's to be just friends. I was woundering if other people may think that could be the reason and any other advise anyone could give me.

Like she said, she needed to figure out what to do with her future, so leave it alone, until she knows what to do. I don't think its about a kiss that breaks u guys up. Have some faith in yourself and move on.

Sometimes liking a person isn't enough to keep you together, as feelings change all the time, and if someone really likes you they stay, whether you can kiss or not.

Don't take it personally, she has other things on her mind, and while it was a short relationship, you learned something, as because its the first, by no means will it be the last.

Don't dwell on it, but do keep asking girls you like on dates. Some will be interested, some will not.

Each will teach you things you'll never forget, so enjoy the experience. Never get down because they change their minds about you, as that's what the do. We all do. So will you if you date enough.