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queenbee23
Oct 30, 2008, 11:55 AM
Ok there's this guy at my job that's 25 and I met him about 3 and a half months ago. I always thought that he was cute, and different well I have a girl friend of mines get his number for me a week later I have the courage to text him and he called me we talked about everything, then a couple weeks later we had intercourse, and the closer we got the more I fell for him, I would see him everyday at work I could never tell if he felt the same about me he always hold back, he came over to see he, but now he comes over a lot stay the night we just do a lot of relationship type of things, but he just won't open up. By him not opening up it holds me back from opening up I want him to know how I feel, but I'm just scared of rejection. Idk what to do he calls me everyday and when I do call me he be like what I'm you boy toy, you could have called to see if I'm OK, its just hard I'm really feeling him Idk how to tell him how I really feel. Help me.

N0help4u
Oct 30, 2008, 06:52 PM
Sounds like he wants you to show more interest in him if he is telling you what I'm you boy toy, u could have called to see if he is okay. I would let him know you really care and love your time with him but hold off on words like 'I am in love with you'
Maybe tell him you really love being with him and ask him where does he see your relationship going and where does would he like to see it going.

mishelly3
Nov 10, 2008, 01:52 AM
I agree no I loves you or anything like that, that makes men want to run for the hills. This is new just take time, let it all sink in let him feel real comfortable around you, he odviouslly like you, he just sound like he is a little shy just give him awhile it will be fine.. best o luck to you both,

chrissymarie
Dec 10, 2008, 02:37 PM
He's definitely interested in you. If you two have already had intercoarse and known each other for awhile and he's still pursuing you he wants more. He wants you. Definitely open up to him. Your right on the edge of being completely involved in a passionate romance!