My boyfirend recently cheated on me and the way I deal with my problems is listen to music. We have two children together and I still want to be with him. What are some good songs to listen to?

I would recommend - The Greatest Love of All by Whitney Houston and Hero by Mariah Carey.

And if I might add, why do you want to volunteer for a miserable life by hiding in your music rather than dealing with someone who steals your dignity and diminishs you through his cheating. You know if you just look the other way it will continue and continue for the rest of your life, but you didn't ask for advice on your situation, but you did mention it.

Good luck to you.

I don't think it is a good idea to run away from your feelings and spend a lot of time in a music fantasy world.

Get a professional in whom you can reveal your true feelings and emotions so you don't get "stuck".

Really best wishes to you, :)

It's one thing if you're getting lost in music, as has been suggested... it's another if you're just using it as a form of therapy to give you strength.

I found this site a while back, and I think it's great. You get connected to 40 inspirational and motivational songs (none of which make you harp on cheating boys!). :)

Let me know if they've helped!

40 Inspirational & Motivational Songs That'll Keep You Refreshed! at Goal Setting College at Goal Setting College (http://www.goal-setting-college.com/motivation/inspirational-motivational-songs/)