DesparteMom
Oct 27, 2008, 02:37 PM
Here is my story, 15 yrs ago I gave birth to a baby boy who I have raised all my life on my own. Now his father knew that I had him but refused to help , saying that if he seen me with a child he would kill us both. Fearing for my child's safety I left the province where we both lived and moved somewhere else because at the time , the police told me that without proof they couldn't do anything for me. Anyway , as I said 15 yrs has passed and my son is now grown but recently within the last 2 months , his father and I use that word lightly has been in contact with me. He rarely asks about the child , instead just continues to tell me how much he still loves me and how he still wants to marry me. He never takes the time to talk to my son , he may have spoke to him 3 times in the last few months but only because I make him. I put him in the situation where as he has no choice but to talk to him and even then its limited. He has not yet offered any kind of child support nor have I asked for it. I don't think I should have to. The only time he threatens to take me to court is when I refuse to tell him I love him back or that I will be with him. I have saved all the conversations that we have had and I have witnesses proving how well I care for my son and how stable our home is. Is there anything I can do to stop this madness.