:confused:i've grew up with this boy I've know my entire life and I've liked him since the fourth gradenow he's moved away to college. I told him how I felt numours times but he has done nothing but shut me down I never got why he turned me down I know I'm not the only one who has got their heartbroken but I feel like I am now he has a girlfriend I thought for sure that I was over him but every time he gets a girl or I see him my feelings come rushing back to me like they never left. I want to be over him but I just can't help the way I feel. I guess I got mixed feelings for him. I loved him all my life and he knows it and he never even gave us chance right now he believes I am over but I don't even know if I'm over him. I guess its just that one word that is very powerful that teens use nowadays like its not as strong as it used to be... love. I don't understand why I can't get him out my head it just won't go away. I need help and I need it bad. I don't want to feel like this forever. If he got married I don't know what I would do which I know he will. I don't want to forget about him but I do want to find someone else that's a much better person than him and I just pray and hope some day I will :(

And you will. Sometimes it's hard not to be able to have something that you want. You always want what you can't have. Ifyou were to get him, you may find out that he isn't what you want. Change your mindset and move on. The attraction is really intensified because you can't have him. You will get over him and you will find someone that wants to be with you. Trust.

You have had those feelings a long time, but now its time to let go and deal with your own world, without him in it.

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Relationships come and go.. but a close friend will last a lifetime.. I believe he does love you, I think he loves you very much. Accept something, accept that you mean MORE to him then who he his dating, BE his friend! I am actually even a little jealous of him! The fact that he has a friend that cares so much for him.. Now on the other hand if you hold back your emotions, if you can not just be his friend and you continue to bottle this up you are doing a huge injustice to HIM and YOURSELF. Be thankful for what you have.. Learn to live apart from him, take him going away to college as a good time to grow as a person.. I hope this helps.