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coppertop25
Oct 26, 2008, 10:44 AM
If this married man has been cheated on in the past and he left her than why did he move with her for the kids? They have been separated before I just don't understand if it is so bad than why can't he leave. He says cause she take all of his money and has no where to go. Will he ever leave her if I have the answers? I love him so much and care for him as well. I want him to be with me. I did ask him if I got my own place if he would move in with me. He say that he might. What's that mean? I need advice.

heartbreaker
Oct 26, 2008, 12:02 PM
Sometimes it hard to leave a person especially when their married or he might have been drawn close to her but want to leave but cnt cause something in in heart is still pulling him back to her.

If he really wanted to leave her he can. Him moving back with her is a sign that he needs more time. If he loves you as much as you love him he would have said yes he will move in with you and not might.

Sometimes things in this world sames as if its for you but its really not.

liz28
Oct 26, 2008, 01:52 PM
Remove yourself from this web and let him do as he please. Regardless if you get your place that wouldn't mean nothing. He's married and in the end you will only get hurt. Don't you think you deserve better? Staying with him will only cause you pain and drama, two things you don't need.

chuff
Oct 26, 2008, 05:26 PM
He's a married man which mean he's married to someone else, which means when he's married you don't date married men because they are indeed married.

The question is not why he goes back to his wife... who he is married to, but what gives you the right to be with a married man. There's a reason you don't date married men, you are living that reason.

talaniman
Oct 28, 2008, 09:15 AM
My dear, that's the chances you take with a married man.

Get over him, or get use to the misery, pain, drama, and confusion.

It truly is your choice, what you do.

Czosie
Oct 28, 2008, 09:20 AM
If you get involved with a married man, even a married man going threw a divorce I do not believe they are emotionally available OR READY to be in a serious relationship. You will be hurt by him and I have a strong feeling you will not be happy down the road after being hurt many times. You would be smart to duck and run at this point.

talaniman
Oct 28, 2008, 09:28 AM
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trishgg57
Oct 28, 2008, 09:40 AM
Just want to say I'm new to this site. I have had a lot of relationships in my life, including getting involved with a married man. There is really only one answer. LEAVE HIM! He's married and if meant what he said, he would have left her by now. You make him feel good by all the love and attention you give him, anyone would, and all the things he tells you about what she does to him? that is just one side of the story. Of course he's going to tell you stuff like that~~~he wants to keep you around. Have you heard the saying "having his cake and eating it to". Please, break it off with him. One more thing, let's just say he did leave her. How do you know he won't do that to you after a while? GOOD LUCK!