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seneat
Oct 22, 2008, 10:03 AM
I want to make myself more sexually attractive among the girls, how to do it?:(:(

angelwings63050
Oct 22, 2008, 10:10 AM
For starters never try to be someone that you are not. Always be yourself. Next you need to be comfortable with yourself, who you are. We know when a guy feels not so sure of himself and that is the worst thing a guy can do. I mean if your not comfortable with yourself than how could we/ Right! Also make sure to always bathe and use deoderant! Don't wear clothes that look like a city for stains. Carry yourself with confidence. God made someone out there for you. Best of Luck!

templelane
Oct 22, 2008, 10:11 AM
Be confident, funny and pleasant. Flatter the women you talk to, and pay attention to what they say. Dress smart, clean and appropriate for your age. And just be yourself.

kanicky73
Oct 22, 2008, 10:12 AM
The most attractive thing ever is confidence!! Even if your really not feeling that way on the inside, make it look like it on the outside. Walk with your shoulders up and back and hold your head up. Make eye contact when you talk to someone. I hate it when I am talking to a guy and he isn't even looking at me!!

ZoeMarie
Oct 22, 2008, 10:30 AM
On top of what everyone else has said- I don't know if you have watched "The Pickup Artist" and I only watched it because it was funny but at the beginning of the show all the guys went out and got haircuts and they all looked about 10 times better. If it's been a while get it cut, or try a new style. It makes a big difference. Good luck! Confidence is very important though! =)

jrsg
Oct 22, 2008, 06:09 PM
Ahhh, I am surprised a question like this one doesn't pop up more often...

I can't wait to se more suggestions, as I think all men can benefit from this thread. Thank you!

I would say what the others have said; confidence. Even if you don't really feel it, fake it. Humor is also nice. And RESPECT the women! That also goes far.

As shallow as it sounds, dress in the latest fashion. Give off a good "first impression" to the girls.

And like others have also said, don't change WHO you are. Be yourself, and find a girl who likes you for who you are.

NItEMArE129
Oct 22, 2008, 06:45 PM
Personally, I don't think there's a surefire method. I accept that some people may totally disagree with me, and I understand that some people prefer a general formula if you will, but understand that I'm only trying to offer a suggestion.

LIVE IN THE MOMENT. Most of your younger life involves reacting to things. For instance, when your 14 in your first relationship, you don't know what to do when your significant other suddenly calls you on the phone crying. You REACT to what s/he says, and then you respond.

So my advice is, be yourself! Everybody has the potential to be funny, you just have to let yourself go. So in essence, confidence will probably lead to humor, tact, and being smooth.

Blaze194
Oct 22, 2008, 10:00 PM
Like most people here have stated I think the best advice is to just be yourself, trying to change or act like someone you are not is not a good idea at all.
As a girl will love that person you pretend to be.. not you.

jrsg
Oct 22, 2008, 10:03 PM
Like most people here have stated I think the best advice is to just be yourself, trying to change or act like someone you are not is not a good idea at all.
As a girl will love that person you pretend to be.. not you.

Exactly...
Changing yourself for another will never work out. I found that out the hard way.

ZoeMarie
Oct 23, 2008, 08:35 AM
All really good advice here for you- being yourself is number one though. Don't be someone else.

theguy123
Oct 25, 2008, 10:14 PM
Confidence. It's the best thing. I just got out of a long relationship and was not confident at all and didn't meet anyone. As I started getting over it I started to get my usual confidence back and now Im involved with someone.

Girls are not attracted to guys who aren't confident. It doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt if you aren't confident then there is no chance. But don't confuse confidence with being cocky and arrogant.

Also, humor is a great thing. Some people are naturally funny and can strike conversation with anyone and make them laugh. Even if you can't do that, everyone has the ability to engage a conversation with one person and show that you have a sense of humor.

So hear is how I rate it

1. Confidence
2. Humor
3. Smell Good

EN Ken
Oct 26, 2008, 12:52 AM
You must satisfy her emotional needs.

In every situation a woman interacts with a man, she will either feel attraction for him or will feel that he is simply another boy she has to be wary of.

When you satisfy a woman's emotional needs, she will feel attraction for you, when you violate them then she will feel the need to mother you.

The emotional needs are: (quoted from Frank B Kermit's Storefront - Lulu.com (http://www.lulu.com/franktalks))


The 10 Emotional Needs of Women

In order to gain attraction from a woman and maintain it, a man must satisfy the following emotional needs through whatever means necessary.

1. Protection of her most valuable asset: Her Reputation
2. She needs to experience a Range of Emotions
3. Cater to the Little Girl in Her
4. He must show Dominance, including taking 100% responsibility for the sex in the relationship
5. Fear of Abandonment
6. Trust him to be honest, even if it makes her mad
7. Her physical protection and safety
8. Can he handle her sexuality (whatever it may be)
9. Does he have sought after High Quality Sperm
10. Prove he is not a closet homosexual