I hate her, she dumped me about two months ago I took it hard, did the poetry, cards showing how much I loved her etc. only to find out that she cheated on me and did not love me anymore. So I did that friends crap that she wanted like a idiot, for a few weeks until I finally found this site and smacked myself and initiaited full no contact.

So about thirty days go by, nothing from her not a text a phone call a email every day I'm feeling a little bit better. And then yesterday what would have been our third year together what do you know she texts me asking me if I'm going to give her back her notebook.

Of course I didn't reply, but it made me feel like crap all over again. Just as I was feeling I was moving on that stupid text message on that day of all days.

This in turn led me to email a mutual friend yes I'm a idiot asking why did she text and noShe can go buy a 2 dollar notebook anywhere. And of course that mutual friend had to tell her and in turn emailed me back that oh it wasn't really re notebook she just wanted to know if you remembered what day it was, and then the dagger she already has a new boyfriend so it's strange that she would text you.

Why did she have to do this me, I felt so much better finally getting out of the hole, then she threw like 100 feet of dirt back over it
Not only did she cheat on me and made me feel like crap this selfish prick won't even let me recover and move on.

Sorry for the spelling mistakes, I'm in the washroom at work on my iPhone feeling like crap.

This is why we change our numbers in these cases. This feeling will pass, now you know not to e-mail any of her friends. A small step backwards, yes, but you have come a lot farther than you are giving yourself credit for

So about thirty days go by, nothing from her not a txt a phone call a email every day I'm feeling a little bit better. And then yesterday what would have been our third year together what do you know she txts me asking me if I'm going to give her back her notebook.



This was a carefully calculated attempt to get an emotional reaction from you, and it worked to perfection.

Whatever you do, keep no contact, and show her no reaction.

For your sake ignore her.

Why did she do it? She's being immature and wants to know if you are still there, thinking, brooding, and hurting over her. And are you? Now you are.

Think back to a few days ago, you were getting better - feeling fine - seeing the end. You'll be back there in no time, just keep at it. Keep your head up. Don't let her have the satisfaction of getting you down like she is. Use it as motivation to move on even quicker.

Best of luck.