View Full Version : Never dated before and I am sixteen
Angel-16
Oct 21, 2008, 06:14 PM
I'm sixteen never had a boyfriend or even been asked out since Elementary and middle school and was like 4 dudes all together. Sometime I feel like I'm not normal I mean mostly all my friends have been asked out and I don't get why I have never been before. Nobody outside of my family has ever told me I was pretty or anything. It not like I am ugly I'm okay it just sad though, you k?:)
Angel-16
Oct 21, 2008, 06:15 PM
Never had aboyfriend before.
ylaira
Oct 21, 2008, 06:20 PM
My first Bf was when I turned 21. And so? At least I'm not the one that guys talked and laughed at when having drinks...
jrsg
Oct 21, 2008, 06:24 PM
Don't worry about it, and don't feel pressured. It is not something to feel bad about... I know plenty of people who haven't had a boy/girlfriend. (I'm 16 too).
Since you asked the question, I assume you want to date. I would recommend you flirt more, and maybe even ask out a guy! I know is not the traditional method, but it would work. Even just increase the amount of time you spend around guys, and you will find yourself more comfortable around us guys. I know it is all easier said then done, but give it a shot!
If you don't want to date, or don't feel comfortable, then don't. If it is only peer pressure that is telling you to date, then don't date. Do it if YOU want to.
Keep us updated on your situation!
Fr_Chuck
Oct 21, 2008, 06:24 PM
No, there is nothing wrong with this, we each in our own time