OK... here's the story... there was that guy... he was a friend of mine, and he told me that he loves me about 3 years ago.. and I rejected him at first as I didn't know him well... then each one of us went in a different direction some how.. and now we're talking.. and I do feel I need him and I love him, but I'm not sure if he still loves me too... what should I do to know if he do... and how to show him that I do care and love him?. sorry for being boring and talking much... thnx for listening :)

If he's not taken now, invite him to a movie, theme park, library and ask. Lets move from there.

I would say that once you love someone, especially for the first time, you will always love them, however after time the "power" of that love loses its luster. I would just ask him. I believe it is possible to re spark the feelings of love after that amount of time. True love never dies... good luck.