advicepl3ase
Oct 20, 2008, 01:21 AM
It's a longg story so here's my best at summarizing it..
My freshman year of high school I met this girl on the basketball team. I became friends with her but something weird happened because our friendship grew.. we had EVERYTHING in common and I mean everything.. I found myself always wanting to be with her and doing anything for her.. during school we'd either be texting, writing each other a note, or she'd come get me out of class and we'd just walk around the school together. I went to every single one of her softball games. Every bus ride for basketball we'd sit together, most of the time she'd lay down and I would hold her and rub her back or play with her hair. We'd would talk on the phone about 4-6 hours every night. Id do anything for her.. anytime we could spend together we would. I spent $400 on her my freshman year which for me is big because I'm kind of stingy with money but for her I always wanted thebest.. that was never an issue. If we held hands or she gave me a hug or a kiss my whole body would start to tingle. And what a cliché but she was the first and last thing I thought about every day. The way she walks, her movements, her eyes, her smile, her perfume, they all drive me crazy.. I told my mom that year I thought I was bi and she freaked out. She took everything away and told me I couldn't be friends with her anymore. My mom is like anti gay so she obviously didn't cope with all that well.. I had to tell her that I was just confused.. I obviously can't tell her the truth it would kill her.. ughh.. I know this all makes me sound gay but I don't know. Its just that she is the only girl I've ever felt anything for no one else... and I would say that maybe it was just a faze but its been 3 years now and I still miss her. I can't get her out of my head.. I still think of her and everything around me is like a constant reminder.. wen someone mentions her name my heart feels like its stopped completely.
What should I do? I can't tell my mom but I don't know if this means I'm truly gay... I mean its only one girl right? I just don't know what to do... I didn't think anything like this would ever happen to me... I've tried to forget but I cant... I stay occupied to keep my mind off it too(I play 4 sports year round, I'm in 8 different clubs at my school, I take all AP courses, I work at a bank) I'm running out of options.. if you have any advice please let me know.. thanks
My freshman year of high school I met this girl on the basketball team. I became friends with her but something weird happened because our friendship grew.. we had EVERYTHING in common and I mean everything.. I found myself always wanting to be with her and doing anything for her.. during school we'd either be texting, writing each other a note, or she'd come get me out of class and we'd just walk around the school together. I went to every single one of her softball games. Every bus ride for basketball we'd sit together, most of the time she'd lay down and I would hold her and rub her back or play with her hair. We'd would talk on the phone about 4-6 hours every night. Id do anything for her.. anytime we could spend together we would. I spent $400 on her my freshman year which for me is big because I'm kind of stingy with money but for her I always wanted thebest.. that was never an issue. If we held hands or she gave me a hug or a kiss my whole body would start to tingle. And what a cliché but she was the first and last thing I thought about every day. The way she walks, her movements, her eyes, her smile, her perfume, they all drive me crazy.. I told my mom that year I thought I was bi and she freaked out. She took everything away and told me I couldn't be friends with her anymore. My mom is like anti gay so she obviously didn't cope with all that well.. I had to tell her that I was just confused.. I obviously can't tell her the truth it would kill her.. ughh.. I know this all makes me sound gay but I don't know. Its just that she is the only girl I've ever felt anything for no one else... and I would say that maybe it was just a faze but its been 3 years now and I still miss her. I can't get her out of my head.. I still think of her and everything around me is like a constant reminder.. wen someone mentions her name my heart feels like its stopped completely.
What should I do? I can't tell my mom but I don't know if this means I'm truly gay... I mean its only one girl right? I just don't know what to do... I didn't think anything like this would ever happen to me... I've tried to forget but I cant... I stay occupied to keep my mind off it too(I play 4 sports year round, I'm in 8 different clubs at my school, I take all AP courses, I work at a bank) I'm running out of options.. if you have any advice please let me know.. thanks