So I was dating this girl for 11 months and then she left for school 4 hours away and as we all know... long distance relationships don't tend to work out so well. We broke up a week later..

Here's the part I don't understand. I talked to her the day after and told her I would like to be friends but she was saying she just didn't want to because she needed her time which is perfectly understandable. She was a complete b**** to me and began to ignore me. I talked to her a couple times afterwards... all of which ended in an argument and it didn't end on good terms. That was about 3 weeks ago. I started the whole NC thing after that. So I haven't spoken to her in almost a month. I know she has been home to visit her family twice since but she hasn't tried to contact me either time. 4 days ago she messaged me on Facebook saying " so this is how it's gonna be? you block me on msn and completely ignore me? i thought we were trying to be friends here..."

I began to think to myself... why all of a sudden does she want to be friends because at the moment I really don't want anything to do with her. I started seeing someone else and am quite happy to be honest. I just don't understand the ex...

Just ignore it... Problem fixed.

It was one little message, one that you can give a simple response to then ignore or ignore it completely. Easy fix.

Just tell her that she was the one that did not want to be friends, she is the one that ignored you for almost a month. Just deal with it quickly and get on with your life.