I am married for 1.5 years, and have love marriage.
For some unseen reasons, I am scared to have sex, whenever we try I am so scared my legs just shiver.

Luckily mu husband really understand and has not forced me yet and told me to take my own sweet time. But I don't want to take advantage of it and for a fact my in laws are also now keen of us having a baby!

I don't know what to do - I really need a baby, I want to see my hubby happy... but just don't how can I overcome the fear factor

Please Help!

U know first you have think about this your future you destiny what you meant to be a wife have children and know that you will never run away from that and except and enjoy and never get sceard I know it's a lot of pain but now you become wife and all the wife's in the world ben throu all these things think about the enoyment of sex and then forget that pain enjoy every min with your husband and you going to have baby to the future

What about it makes you so scared? Are you afraid of it hurting? It does not seem like you are afraid of getting pregnant. So what it is that is scaring you so much, this may help people answer your question.

What about it makes you so scared? Are you afraid of it hurting? It does not seem like you are afraid of getting pregnant. So what it is that is scaring you so much, this may help people answer your question.


Hi Ang,

Actually I want to have babies, but the fear of hurting and pain is scaring me, whenever my hubby and me tries to have sex, my legs don't extend the way it should, it starts shivering!

I really need help because I love my hubby and want a nice family!